A Self-Care Habit Worth Adopting “Mind your own business” is often said sharply, as a dismissal or a defence. But what if we reclaimed it? What if minding your own business became one of the most grounding, freeing self-care habits you could adopt? At its heart, this isn’t about becoming cold, selfish, or disengaged. It’s …
Winter in the northern hemisphere has a way of asking us to slow down—whether we like it or not. Living in Scotland, it can feel as though winter stretches on for half the year. The cold, the damp, the grey skies, and the long dark nights can be deeply draining. I’ll be honest: I’m not …
Meditation is a powerful form of emotional self-care because it creates space to acknowledge, feel, and process emotions rather than suppress or avoid them. In everyday life, many of us are taught—directly or indirectly—to push uncomfortable emotions aside and keep going. While this may seem productive in the short term, over time it can lead …
Meditation is not a one-size-fits-all practice. Just as self-care looks different for everyone, meditation can take many forms. Exploring different styles allows you to discover what best supports your needs, personality, and lifestyle. Some meditation practices feel grounding and calming, while others feel energising or emotionally nourishing. You may also find that different styles support …
Meditation is most powerful when it becomes a gentle, supportive part of your everyday life. Like any self-care practice, it works best when it feels sustainable rather than forced. This is not about discipline or perfection—it’s about building a relationship with meditation that feels kind, flexible, and realistic. Many people begin meditation with enthusiasm, only …
Starting a meditation practice doesn’t require a lifestyle overhaul, hours of free time, or a perfectly quiet space. You don’t need to change your life to begin meditating—you simply need a few moments and a willingness to pause. Meditation works best when it’s simple and gentle. Rather than trying to do everything at once, start …
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When people say they “can’t meditate,” it’s rarely because they don’t have time, discipline, or ability. More often, it’s because of what they believe meditation is supposed to look like. Many of us carry quiet misconceptions about meditation—ideas that make it feel intimidating, frustrating, or simply “not for people like me.” These myths can stop …
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Are you really Listening to your body Is your body screaming at you? Pain, exhaustion, stress, anxiety and mental overwhelm. I know mine was, but for a long time, I wasn’t really listening. I was consumed by the pain, the unknown, and the why. But now as soon as the start of a flare-up comes …
If you’ve been on a self-care journey for a while, you’ve probably heard people mention the vagus nerve. It sounds a bit scientific and mysterious—but once you understand what it does, you’ll realise it’s one of the most powerful tools you have for managing stress, emotions, and overall wellbeing. Let’s break it down simply, with …
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Discover Practical Tools to Build Lasting Self-Care Habits Self-care isn’t just a buzzword — it’s the foundation of how we show up for ourselves and the world around us. Yet for many of us, it feels like something we only squeeze in when life gets overwhelming. The truth? Self-care works best when it becomes a …
